What would you most like to share about your upcoming class?
The Cape Cod Training Program is a course I've both taken and taught multiple times. I liken my experience to climbing a spiral staircase around a core cylinder that represents the model. Every turn gives me a new vantage point, an expansion of my awareness and perspective, and no matter how many rounds I go, I am always standing in a new place, often profoundly altered by my unfolding experience. It’s this unending opportunity for experiential growth that I find so exciting and that I hope to share with participants in the upcoming program.
What is your favorite Gestalt principle or concept? Why?
The truth is, it’s whichever one I’m thinking about, using, or teaching at the time, though if I have to name one, it would be the paradoxical theory of change. When I think about why it so appeals to me, I think it’s because of the compassion inherent in the concept. To say that we grow and develop, not by trying to be her or him, or this or that, but by being more me, is to implicitly value all parts of a person, even those parts a person might wish would go away. We support those parts because we understand they serve or have served the person. We know that the part we wish would go away has value in the person’s life. The paradoxical theory of change as we use it in the Cape Cod Model asks that we embrace or immerse ourselves in the thing we want to change. Rather than banish that part and its attendant behavior, the PTC asks us to befriend it, get to know it, and to discover its value. As we learn what that part does for us (or did for us), the help it gave us, we come to appreciate it. Once we’ve befriended it and appreciate it, we are no longer organized around killing it, no longer in a tense war with a part of ourselves, using up energy, focus and creativity to destroy something that actually has an important place in a person. That means we have that energy, focus, and creativity to bring to bear in other places, to develop new ways of being in the world. It means we have room to move so to speak and when we have room to move, we expand the available possibilities for how to be in the world.
What is a quote that speaks to you?
Heraclitus: “No man ever steps in the same river twice, because it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.” I think I’m drawn to this quote so much because for me it succinctly and vividly describes our capacity for unending experiential growth in a forever changing world while all the while flying in the face of fixed Gestalts.
What is one piece of advice you would offer to others who would like to follow your path?
Don’t. Discover and follow your own. The Cape Cod Training Program will encourage and support you in that journey of self-discovery.
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